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October 14, 2017 at 11:55 am

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Resurfacing memories

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The 38 year old Indian founder of Gumtree.com said: “It is not so much about having goals, it’s about having a purpose. You only really need to know one thing in life: what is your true north? Know it, and don’t loose sight of it.”

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October 14, 2017 at 11:52 am

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Choosing a path

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journey with a heart

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“This question is one that only a very old man asks. Does this path have a heart? All paths are the same: they lead nowhere. They are paths going through the bush, or into the bush. In my own life I could say I have traversed long long paths, but I am not anywhere. Does this path have a heart? If it does, the path is good; if it doesn’t, it is of no use. Both paths lead nowhere; but one has a heart, the other doesn’t. One makes for a joyful journey; as long as you follow it, you are one with it. The other will make you curse your life. One makes you strong; the other weakens you.” – Carlos Castaneda, the teachings of Don Juan

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September 21, 2017 at 5:37 pm

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The smell of starlight

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the smell of stars

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September 15, 2017 at 5:07 pm

A PRAYER FOR THE LIVING

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Life,

Break in me whatever needs to be broken.

Fix my hope of ever being fixed.

Use me. Draw every ounce of creativity out of me. Help me live a radically unique life, forever forging a never-before-trodden path in the forest.

Show me how to love more deeply than I ever thought possible.

Whatever I am still turning away from, keep shoving in my face.

Whatever I am still at war with, help me soften towards, relax into, fully embrace.

Where my heart is still closed, show me a way to open it without violence.

Where I am still holding on, help me let go.

Give me challenges and struggles and seemingly insurmountable obstacles, if that will bring an even deeper humility and trust in the intelligence of life.

Help me laugh at my own seriousness.

Allow me to find the humour in the dark places.

Show me a profound sense of rest in the midst of the storm.

Don’t spare me from the truth. Ever.

Let gratitude be my guide.

Let forgiveness be my mantra.

Let this moment be a constant companion.

Let me see your face in every face.

Let me feel your warm presence in my own presence.

Hold me when I stumble.

Breathe me when I cannot breathe.

Let me die living, not live dying.

Amen.

– Jeff Foster

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July 18, 2017 at 6:57 pm

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Poetry

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poetry

Written by sabineclappaert

July 13, 2017 at 8:03 pm

Note to self

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Everything is energy. You have felt that all along. What makes you sad is that people so often deny the existence of that energy. That we are taught the importance of the stuff on top of the energy. That we are taught to find the truth there.

Coaches coach symptoms. The stuff “on top”. Not the energy. We seldom acknowledge the energy.

Today I rediscovered my truth. What I knew all along: the truth lies in the energy.

(Notes from Alan Seale’s TPLC course, March 2017)

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Photo: Frances Dunn

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June 17, 2017 at 4:59 pm

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